Mentoring Program
I prefer to refer to it as a Relationship Coaching Program. However, I am compelled, for now, to use common terms and phrases that people understand. Or should we say, phrases they think they understand?
So, what is Relationship Coaching?
Everything in your life is the way it is because of your specific relationship with it. Altering your relationship with issues, events, needs, desires, or wants will change the way they are in your life. If you want to change your life then you must change the way you relate to it. Your life is a series of relationships, that is the only reality.
If you truly understood this relationship business, it will clarify the majority of your life's dilemma. Why do feel a particular way when some others feel differently? Why is even a small failure, a major debacle for you while others seem to get away with much greater ones? Why is so-and-so luckier than you? Why don't your relationships ever succeed? Or, why do all relationships end in heartbreak for you? Why can't you be happy, while others seem like they have it all?
Why do you not have a career like some others? Why don't you get acknowledged for your contributions while others are forever stealing the limelight? Why don't you get the opportunities that you deserve?
Altering each and everything about your life is about altering your relationship with it.
Relationship Coaching is an all-encompassing effort for self-transformation in which everything internal and external is covered. Problems are handled, issues are dealt with, incompletions are dissolved. All in all, it is a process of taking a full 360-degree turn in life.
Is it Neuro-linguistic-programing (NLP)?
It is not NLP, but it is NLP too. We will be using a few or many techniques of NLP, but you won’t be learning NLP. Look NLP is not what it is advertised to be, most of it is a promotional narrative and to be honest, there are more certified NLP instructors than people who have genuinely benefited from these tricks, tips, and techniques. There are genuine NLP practitioners too, but they do not tout NLP to promote their work.
The long and short of it, for now, is that everything that you do or don’t do is a way or method to program your brain. It is neuro-linguistic-programing. I will post a full blog on NLP sometime soon.
Do you use hypnosis?
No, I don’t use hypnosis. But that phrase has the same ambiguity as NLP. There are many hypnotic states that don’t require one to be hypnotized. Watching TV, Sensational News, Horror Movies, Daily Soaps, Action Movies or any other activity that you get engrossed in will take you into a hypnotic trance. If you have learned a new feature on your smartphone, well, you have just been through a trance. I might write a blog on this too, but don’t sweat over it for now.
Are you a Certified Counselor?
No, I am not certified by any authority for this work. I do not administer any clinical drug or therapy or any such process that requires such certifications. Other Institutional certificates for counseling are also not necessary for the conversational process I employ.
So, what will we do? How will Relationship Coaching be done?
We will talk. That’s all!
